Marriage or living with a significant other is always an adjustment. There are things that you would never do until you move in with her like watch Troop Beverly Hills, pick up your beer cans at the end of the night, or a myriad of the things of bachelor life that isn’t conducive to living with a woman. One of the many things that I had to adjust to is Bravo.
Before Jane and I started living together I was not a TV watcher. I did not spend a lot of time in front of the TV. I would either read while the roommates were watching TV or I would go out. Jane is a TV watcher, which is fine because we like a lot of the same shows that are on PBS, travel, food network. But one channel that I could easily say I never watched before living with Jane is Bravo. Bravo is not really targeted to my demographic (read beer drinking, hairy southern male). I am not a racist or homophobic, but in all reality I don’t understand fashion. I don’t get design, hair dressing, and making it work. I wear jeans, khaki’s from Sams Club, and a pair of Dickies from Wal Mart that stay wrinkled. When I was younger it was a day of full of dread when I was forced to go “School Shopping”. But, being a fair person and knowing how much college and Titans football that she has to deal with from August to January, I don’t put up a fuss about watching Project Runway or So You Think You Can Dance. And to be fair, Top Chef seriously is one of the best competition shows on TV.
And so, much to my dismay I have been bitten by the Bravo Bug by one extremely neurotic, obsessive compulsive, and hopelessly addicting character: Jeff Lewis. If you have never seen Flipping Out, then you have missed one of the best shows that has been on TV for the past two years.
I am not a fan of reality TV and it pains me to see perfectly good shows such as Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip get canceled because it is cheaper to make reality TV. But Flipping Out is Real Reality TV. Much like having a train wreck unfold in your living room, Every Tuesday Mr. Lewis accompanied by his faithful and patient assistant Jenni. Whether he is berating his employees or clients, Jeff Lewis is sure enough one of the most original and intriguing characters on TV.
Jeff Lewis is demanding, controlling, but most often right. At first I watched the show and thought he was a megalomaniac intending on torturing all those who surrounded him. But, after watching the show I realize that he has to be the bad guy. Much like the football coach or great teacher who was a taskmaster and strict disciplinarian, Mr. Lewis has to run a tight ship on his large real estate business because in the end it is his reputation and face that goes on any failures. And also, most of the people working for him are smiling and seem to enjoy it. Also, he does great work on the houses. For my untrained eye, they are awesome. Also, being a web developer, I have to deal with clients and I must admire how Jeff does not take shit from them when it is not needed. He is not afraid to tell them “No, it is not in your budget. Phase II.” Also, Jeff is a savvy businessperson who seems to be one at the top of his field. This is based on no research, but the appearances let on by the show. In all reality it could be a bunch of actors in a Hollywood studio, but even if they are, I still will watch because the character of Jeff Lewis real or written is still too good not to watch.